How much more can I take?!?
There I was- sitting with my parents, having a pleasant conversation- when they suddenly dropped the M-bomb on me. I can't handle it anymore. They talk about marriage EVERY SINGLE DAY! I can't take it anymore!!!! Every single conversation that I have with them leads to the discussion of my future spouse. For goodness sake, I'm only 22! Cut me some slack!
And no mom, there's nothing "wrong with me"!!!!
I know that this is typical of Romanian parents... to pressure their kids into marriage early on.... and to freak out if there's no one in the picture.... and to threaten to send me to Romania if I don't find someone in the next few years. Knowing this gives me more grace for them.
But my parents want to see me with someone so badly that they question my standards... which I think is wrong. I would never encourage my children to compromise their standards, especially when it comes to having a boyfriend. I say, it's GOOD to be picky! I'm saving myself for the BEST! Because I am the best and I deserve that! And if there are any young girls reading this.... PLEASE DON'T EVER EVER EVER SETTLE!!!
Don't get me wrong; my parents are extremely strong Christians and they believe in God's will for my life. I think that they are just a little blinded by their desperation.
Hehehe sometimes I say that God is calling me to be single just so that I get a rise out of them.... it's a little cruel but hey, there's a lesson to be learned....
Good times in the Braica house.
And no mom, there's nothing "wrong with me"!!!!
I know that this is typical of Romanian parents... to pressure their kids into marriage early on.... and to freak out if there's no one in the picture.... and to threaten to send me to Romania if I don't find someone in the next few years. Knowing this gives me more grace for them.
But my parents want to see me with someone so badly that they question my standards... which I think is wrong. I would never encourage my children to compromise their standards, especially when it comes to having a boyfriend. I say, it's GOOD to be picky! I'm saving myself for the BEST! Because I am the best and I deserve that! And if there are any young girls reading this.... PLEASE DON'T EVER EVER EVER SETTLE!!!
Don't get me wrong; my parents are extremely strong Christians and they believe in God's will for my life. I think that they are just a little blinded by their desperation.
Hehehe sometimes I say that God is calling me to be single just so that I get a rise out of them.... it's a little cruel but hey, there's a lesson to be learned....
Good times in the Braica house.
8 Comments:
At 1:14 PM,
Anonymous said…
Hey, my friend wrote something about this single life also, so I thought to share what she said......
Now, I've been single all my life...and I used to be miserable, but in the past few years I have come to love singleness, and see it as a gift.
If you think I'm crazy, you can tell me, I've heard it before...
Anyways... there is so much pressure these days to date. Gosh, people look at me like I'm growing a third eye-ball when they find out that I don't like anyone, or I'm not dating right now...if only they knew I never have...
I'm not saving myself for "that guy"...because, there might not even be one. The Lord might come back, I might go home to be with Him soon, or I just could be single the rest of my life, so why save myself for a person that I'm not even sure exists?
No, I'm saving myself for the Savior of all mankind. 1 Corinthians 6 says that I belong to Him anyways, He bought me with the price of His blood, so why would I think that I have the right and the decision to "give" myself to someone else...it's all in His hands, and in His timing.
So I'm writing this for everyone, don't get caught up in the thinking of this world, that you're only worth something if guys/girls like you. Be concerned about the One who has the final say over your soul for all eternity. We are put on this planet to glorify Him, not to bring admiration for ourselves.
At 2:31 PM,
sarah braica said…
ohmygoodness, I'm so humbled by what your friend wrote.
thank you.
At 11:37 PM,
Anonymous said…
Hey No Problem...we all need the encouragement!`
At 9:02 PM,
Anonymous said…
what you need to do is like date a guy with 5 different facial piercings and no job. then after about 2 months dump him and mom and dad will be so relieved they'll get off your back.
advice from a wise sister- alina
At 9:17 AM,
sarah braica said…
hahahahahaha alina that's hilarious!
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